And I can't believe it. But I am SO overjoyed for her and Dan. Just a little over a year ago, SooJin and I had a conversation in our apartment in Tokyo. SooJin wasn't sure what she was going to do with her life after STINT. She had options - become a high school Biology teacher, join staff with Campus Crusade in the U.S., come back to Japan long-term, go back to grad school . . . As one of the top of her class at Duke University, it's not like she didn't have options. She just didn't know what she WANTED to do.
So as we stood in our teeny kitchen apartment she asked me, "You know what would solve all of my problems?"
I immediately replied, "If you died?" (After all, I thought, you do know Jesus!)
She looked at me in shock. Then started laughing. "NO!! If I got married!!"
Obviously she knew that getting married wouldn't solve ALL of her problems. But that was her heart's desire. She just didn't know who she would get married TO . . . there was really no real prospects or any real potential to meet anyone once she got home to North Carolina.
But would you believe that just eleven days after coming home from STINT she met an awesome, godly, Jesus-loving guy named Dan who literally seemed to fall from the sky!? (It's a long story).
And tonight, just a year and a month later, Dan and SooJin married. Jody, Adelle and I (we were all in Tokyo together from 2006-2007) were bridesmaids and it was so fun to reminicise with them and Daniel (another one of our STINT teammates) and to think about God's faithfulness. Not just in the area of Him providing a husband for SooJin, but just in the way that we can see him transforming us . . .
When SooJin first came on STINT it was hard for her to open up to our team. And that was hard for me to understand that because of my expectations of what STINT would be like. Plus we were roommates in a teeny apartment. And on top of that, I was insecure about being a team leader when she was a returning STINTer and knew more about Japan and the ministry in Japan. I made a lot of mistakes as a team leader. And as a friend. So we had conflict. But after a lot of prayer, hard work, truth, grace and forgiveness on both sides plus a lot of time together we truly became friends - not just teammates, co-workers or roommates. But friends. GOOD friends.
So for me to walk down the aisle of SooJin's wedding today really was a testimony to God's transfoming grace and faithfulness. I don't deserve friends like SooJin or like many of you. And I don't deserve Jesus' friendship either. But I'm so grateful that because of Jesus' sacrifice for us on the cross he not only SAVED us, but gave us his Holy Spirit to transform us as well. We're all a work in progress, but it's neat to see glimpses of that progress at moments. Today was one of those moments.

He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity
in the hearts of men; yet they cannot fathom what God has done from
beginning to end. Ecclesiastes 3:10
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